Around the Pond

Good Day!

It is a beautiful good day.

I would like to give a little update on the goldfish.

Let me just say, they are coming around. I mean, really coming around. And they seem to be getting to know us.

They no longer “dart” for cover when we approach the pond.

They are beginning to feel freedom and it’s obvious for us as they now play and make quite a splash as we look on.

And each morning when I feed them breakfast, I count all 10 of them.

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And I count all 10 of them when I’m not feeding them. And I count all 10 of them each time I visit. I can’t help but want to know that they are all safe and doing well.

We are quite smitten with our babies and find them to be an extra special addition to our home.

Blessings – Debbie

Upside and Downside

On the upside, I captured a shot of our babies the other day.

On the Downside, they were gone yesterday morning! They got big so fast and here I thought I would get to take pictures of them learning to fly away.

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On the upside, I find the flowers and my early morning strolls in the garden so refreshing.

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On the downside, I failed to clean the filter/basket (for the pond/fountain water feature) the right way and I completely lost the prime on the pump/falls. It was a sad day as I was looking forward to bringing fish home today.

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On the upside, the hubs had the pump/fountain primed, once he picked up the tools needed at Home Depot.

And this shot was taken just before sunset.

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On the upside, I still get to pick up our fish this week.

On the upside, I’m so blessed the hubs cares about my dreams and wishes. So much so, that he insists on making it a priority without me asking.

I’d say the upside of the last few days is > the downside. And for that, I feel blessed.

Blessings – Debbie

Dreams Do Come True

For the last three years, soon to be 4, we’ve been renters. Very happy renters. Renters with no intention of purchasing a home until we felt reasonably certain we would be in one place for more than a couple of years.

For three + years we rented. Not something we’re used to, as we’ve been homeowners every stop along the way.

For three + years, we enjoyed the shoes we were in and it felt good to be free to go at a moments notice.

But we also had dreams to be homeowners again one day.

Our dream to become homeowners developed into a plan right before Easter. It’s then when the hubs and I were discussing the possibilities of becoming homeowners by the end of summer.

Things at the hubs work made a giant shift, for great things to happen. And it looks like we could potentially stay in beautiful Southern California for some time.

I’ll never forget that weekend. It’s the weekend I started searching Zillow. The weekend when I put the search for a home in full swing.

Yes, that was the weekend I found our home. It was a home listed “by owner”, of all things. I made the call, left a message. And sent an e-mail to the homeowner as well.

And don’t you know, the homeowner and I finally connected.

Now normally, I’m the scout and do all the leg work. Then when I “find” the place that I “think” we can call home, the hubs is brought in for a look-see.

Not this time, I said to the hubs “Honey, I can already tell that I want you to see the home.” I knew by looking at the pictures, (on-line) that I wanted him to see it too.

The hubs agreed. We would go on his Friday off and have a quick peak.

Good Friday, that’s the big day I’ll never forget. It was a day we had a major list of things to do. We had a road trip planned, and wanted to be on the road by 10AM.

So our appointment to look at the home was scheduled for 9AM. That should give us plenty of time to see the house and be on our way.

At 9AM sharp, we rang the doorbell. ~ I get choked up thinking about it.

The homeowners greeted us with genuine warm smiles, shook our hands and welcomed us into their home.

A lump developed in my throat at once. And I knew before looking at the house that it felt right in every way. I just knew.

But what was the hubs thinking? I had no clue.

We went from room to room and I felt “this is too good to be true”. The home had a brand new concrete roof, new copper plumbing all the way thru, granite counters in the kitchen and baths and a white kitchen.

I had dreams of a white kitchen here in the south. It truly was a little dream come true.

The home was naturally light and bright in the daylight and I felt a cheerfulness about it that tugged at my heart.

Since we were constantly with the homeowners, I was not sure what the hubs was thinking. After all, we had big plans for the day and buying a house was something we just started talking about.

And then we were escorted out thru the double sliding glass doors that led to the covered patio.

The garden was more than just a dream come true, it was my very own personal miracle.

Back up nearly 14 years ago. Then is when the hubs and I toured Asia. And it was then that I fell in love with Koi ponds and gardens.

And for the nearly last 14 years, I’ve jokingly asked the hubs for a koi pond one day. I’ve torn pictures out of magazines for nearly 14 years. And I have a book with clippings of beautiful koi ponds. And goodness knows how many koi pond ideas I’ve gathered from Pinterest and my Houzz app…

While I’ve had really big dreams of a koi pond “one day”. I never thought in a million years that my dream would come true.

Well don’t you know, this place came with a koi pond that far exceeded my wishes and dreams. Yes, dreams do come true. But this time, it’s bigger than a dream, it’s a miracle.

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Since living in So Cal going on 4 years, the hubs and I talked on and off that one day if we did buy, that it would be nice to have a yard with no grass to cut.

And don’t you know, there is not one blade of grass. It comes with beautiful plants and trees. And lovely winding stone paths with a series of steps that lead up and around the garden. Yes, dreams and miracles do come to pass.

But still, I wondered what the hubs was thinking. As you know, we had big road trip plans that day. And buying a house was not on the list of things to do. Just a quick peak.

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Privacy was one of the key factors on the top of our list. And this is the view from the sliding glass doors in the master bed.

The view we see without lifting our head off the pillow.

In fact, our first night in the new home I woke at 3AM and was wide awake looking out on this scene glowing in the moonlight until 6AM. But I’m getting ahead of myself.

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Once we finished looking at the property, the homeowners gave the hubs and me a chance to have some alone time.

The hubs looked at me and I looked at him and we knew we found the place.

And do you know we made an offer right then and there? But the funny thing the hubs said that I will never forget is this “well I really didn’t come to buy a house today, I just thought I was coming for a quick peak.” It’s something the homeowners will never forget either, as they remind us of those words every time we see them.

And we dropped our road trip and list of things to do in an instant. And enjoyed a nice cup of coffee and visited with the homeowners for 3 hours. 3 HOURS!

And made an appointment to be over to the escrow office, that afternoon, along with the homeowners.

And do you know, the homeowners fell in love with us. And we just adore them. And we have become friends. And the hubs had lunch with the homeowner before we bought the house. And they made brownies for us when we visited. And she stocked our freezer with meals and dessert as a treat when we were moving in. And we have an invitation to their upcoming housewarming party.

But before we became homeowners, I felt the shoe was going to drop. It all felt too good to be true. Even the day of closing, I was worried.

I suppose I worried they would sell it to someone else, as they were offered more than what we offered. Yes, they had another offer in shortly after us. But the couple liked us and wanted us to have it and told us flat-out that they would not engage in a bidding war. But I was still worried, as the bidding wars out here are killer! Especially now. And even tho we had a written contract, I still felt the shoe could drop at the last min.

When the closing finally took place, it was hard to grasp it all. After we moved in, it was still hard to grasp. But I’m finally coming around. And the hubs told me that I had better get used to it. Will it ever sink in?

It’s taken so long to tell the story and truth be told, I’m no longer waiting on the shoe to drop. Dreams do come true as we are blessed to be the caretakers to this place we now call home.

We’re grateful for the many blessings we’ve received.

Blessings – Debbie

From the Garden

It’s difficult to describe our backyard, so I thought sharing some images would give a feel of our xeriscape yard.

It’s made up of a patio that extends the full length of the home. Then comes the pond and next a winding stone path with a series of steps that lead up and around the yard. There are a couple of sitting areas in the far back, at the top of the hill.

The pond is gathering algae and turning green. So I’m told this is good, as the chemicals are clearing out, making room for the fish. I’m so excited, but I’m thinking next week is the week for adding fish…

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While gardening the last couple of days, I’ve met some really cool neighbors.

Today, while working in the front-yard, I met the girls hiking club and the van load of girls stopped out front to say hello and invited me to join them hiking over at the Safari Park. It was hard to say no, but gardening called. One of these days, I hope to join them.

The photo below was taken during my backyard gardening, see the mess? It will be there for me in the morning.

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For this last image, I used my Digital Darkroom skills, by making a panorama. The back is complicated and hard to fill in one shot, so I took a series of 20 images and blended them, to give an idea of the space from the back porch.

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As night falls, I’ll be dreaming of my gardening tools, gloves, trash cans and waking in the morning to find new things to do.

Blessings – Debbie

Making our House a Home

Catching up with the blog from the weekend.

The weekend was well spent with the hubs. Especially since he was in Indy last week.

We enjoyed a bit of dining out, crossed things off the list and enjoyed my favorite seat in the house ~ on the patio.

There was tea sipping (infused with honey)

Bird chirping

Fountain splashing

Baseball ~ Yay, our St Louis Cardinals won!

NASCAR ~ Yay, our Tony Stewart won!

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Pond Reflection – Where I come each day – A place I like to keep clean of debris – where I like to reflect – and ponder all the things I would like to accomplish.

This week, I hope to have the new addition of some fish. We’ll see. If not this week, I’m sure we’ll have them by next week.

I snapped this shot as the sun was coming up, yesterday.

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And just for today, I’ve been…

Busy as a bee – I had a blast gardening this morning. I’m in my element, especially now that we have a Xeriscape yard = Not a single blade of grass and landscaped with plants and trees with little to no need of water.

Another exciting thing about my day, I got to meet two neighbors. And they are just as warm and friendly as I could hope for.

Snapped this shot just before putting my tools away.

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Little by little, things are taking shape.

Soon, we will be settled and ready for our first party.

Until then, you can find me with my gardening gear or tidying here and there.

Blessings – Debbie

The Nest

There is something magical about a nest. Something that echoes love, hard work and patience.

This dove has been here since we moved in two weeks ago.

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And it amazes me how still she sits all day long. Day in and day out. Well, at least it looks like the same bird, but I understand the mother and father swap shifts.

And each day I wonder, how long for her babies to hatch. From what I read, they should start hatching  any day now.

As I think about this nest, I think of our new nest.

The place we hope we hope to stay for a very long time.

And thinking about this new nest that we feel so blessed to care for, is enough to send me over the edge.

There is so much to share, so I’m going to bite it off piece by piece in the weeks and months to come.

Blessings – Debbie

Summertime Blessings

It’s official, it’s summer! And I’m completely wrapped in so much excitement that I can hardly contain myself.

For starters, we moved to a new home!

While we’re still getting organized, we’ve come to love the new outdoor spaces. The Koi pond lacks fish at the moment. But hopefully it will be ready for colorful life soon.

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I’m enjoying the garden art the previous owners left.

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This is a fun little set left for us to enjoy. It’s also a reminder that I need to give it a little cleaning.

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Another beautiful piece of garden art left. I just love it!

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I captured this lovely flower a few nights ago, just as the sun was setting.

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Words are few but we feel blessed and our hearts are full of so much excitement as we move in and make this our new home sweet home.

Blessings – Debbie

It’s Not All Coffee And Sunshine

Before the day gets away from me, I thought I would hop over here for a little morning shout-out!

Good Day!

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It’s not all coffee and sunshine but just for today, let it be.

It’s Friday!

The hubs is taking off 1/2 day to spend with me!

True, he has a dentist appointment this afternoon but after that, we are smooth sailing thru the weekend together.

So I’ve been busy with getting caught up on laundry and the changing of the sheets is underway. Ironing will begin momentarily and I should have this place whipped into shape by the time he gets home.

There is much to be thankful for. I’m thankful the hubs finds his time extra special to hang out with me.

And with that, I need to finish tying up my end so I don’t have housework this weekend.

Blessings – Debbie

Happy Independence Day

Let freedom ring and blessings unfold!  This is such a special day, a day that comes but once a year when we celebrate freedom.

This year (since I’m so far behind on my blog) I’m going to share some of the things that bring joy to me in our new beginning here in Cali.

It’s quite pretty looking through the palms on a full moon night.

A fog kissed morning in the backyard

 Evening shadows in the backyard

White roses in the garden

A new little set that rocks and swivels

Come on out and play ~ I enjoy time nearly each day on the patio

A smoothie a day is something I’ve been doing for weeks now.  It’s such a nice afternoon treat in the backyard.

We’re still moving in ~ I just displayed one of my favorite sets of old books today.  Tucked away on page 44 is a bookmark titled Mamma.  It’s soiled a bit but I feel it should be left right where Mamma left it.

And the latest new toy that arrived to our home this afternoon.  I’m particularly fond of the 8 ball, hopefully hubby will leave the solid black one tucked away somewhere.

Hubby scored this Brunswick beauty on craigslist for quite a good deal.  The gentleman who moved it did an amazing job getting it all set up.  I’m so happy he loves his new toy!  It’s something he’s wanted for years but never enough room for one.  He just said “I love this table more every single shot”. 

We played well into the sunset while it cast some pretty strong shadows.  We should have our light fixture hung soon as we’re looking forward to playing on into the evening hours.

Cue ball, three rails, 8 ball in the corner.  I DID that today for the first time ever!  Many thanks to hubby for being the best coach!

Wishing you a Very Special, Safe and Happy Independence Day!  And until next year may we keep the fire of freedom and blessings burning.  Let us not forget.

Blessings ~ Debbie

Mosaic Monday in Our Backyard

Happy  Mosaic Monday  Having made a huge move this past month from the east coast to the west coast, we are slowly but surely getting settled into the place we call home.

Mosaic of pics in our new backyard

Some pics of my favorite daily smoothies in the garden.

There are times I need to drag myself inside to tend to the boxes and unpacking.  But for now, I’m trying to find a happy medium.

Blessings ~ Debbie

To Everything There Is A Season

I’m reflecting over this past year and the words of this song feel fitting.

To Everything

Turn – The path to home – Autumn


Turn – Winter

Turn – Spring (yesterday)


There is a season – This past summer we watched our home take shape


Turn – Last autumn we moved in

Turn – The first snow of the season before we moved to California (October 2009)


Turn – Yesterday, a beautiful spring day

And a time to every purpose, under Heaven – I believe that, I do.

A time to be born – That 3 car garage hubby dreamed of

a time to die – Our little red rental sits out in the drive as our other vehicles are already in Cali never to enter those doors again.

A time to plant, a time to reap – The grass seed was sprayed last autumn.  And the gardeners will be here today to give the grass its very first cut.

A time to kill, a time to heal – Saw our neighbor across the way (in our backyard) catch some fish this week. I’m sure the experience was healing in and of itself..

A time to laugh – I was happy to have our home in shape

a time to weep – I could’ve wept over this sight last night.

A time to build up, a time to break down – Hubby taking down a sentimental chandelier that follows us wherever life’s path may lead

Crystals on the table waiting for him to wrap

Placing the frame into the crate and is stabilized by the support beam.  Then adding popcorn for protection.

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A time to dance, a time to mourn – I dance at the sight of this Korean pottery that I collected while there and mourn at the thought of some of my pieces breaking the last move. I trust they make this journey in one piece.

A time for love, a time for hate – Love is such a beautiful thing and I’m thrilled that we are in this together. I guess I hate that we didn’t get to spend just a little bit more time in our home. But now that we’ve reached the end of this road, we’re ready to move on.

A time for peace, I swear it’s not too late – We’re at peace and look forward to this upcoming change with zest.  We feel our home sold in record time as it was only on the market 4 1/2 months.  Now we can really move on.

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Change Is Coming

“Oops, I got a little winded today”.

I think I got sick, homesick would be the right diagnosis. Perhaps it was the cooler weather or not being able to find the right temperature in our home the last couple weeks. Maybe it had to do with crawling into a cold bed because the heat was turned to 65 during the night. For some reason when the heater runs too much, I get all stuffy and can’t breathe (TMI, sorry). My dry chapped skin was slathered in lotion. And the cloudy skies loomed the majority of the time. Signs of spring, well there were no signs of spring and we even had a light dusting of snow last week.

Whatever it was, something messed with my head and I found myself towards the end of our stay quite homesick for sunny California. If laughter is the best medicine, then sunshine is preventative care. Oh never mind me, that was my thought as I woke up to sunshine this morning.

I did some reflecting while there. I thought, “Why don’t I remember any of those things while we lived there”? Sure, we went through the motions but never gave it a thought. It all boiled down to the fact that we moved north with a very positive attitude. We wanted to be there, it was a choice we made. I enjoyed the pretty white fluffy snow (still do) and we embraced life because that is where we were and being together is home. By embracing change, the other little things did not matter. Life was good, we enjoyed our time and would have continued enjoying life right there if that was where we were going to live. I elect happiness; it’s such a pretty way to accept the inevitable changes in this life. As we all know, change is coming.

The beauty of change is allowing new and exciting things into our lives. There’s a certain amount of anxiety when change slaps us unexpectedly but it’s how we deal with it. We must not fight against it, rather work with it and deal with it and allow it to take us in new directions. After all, change is what makes us who we are and takes us where we’re going. And I for one have to say that I love where change has brought us and will continue to embrace it one way or another as change is coming.

I will insert that hubby and I both accepted losing everything in the event he couldn’t find a job all those months ago. We talked about what we would do and where we would go. We debated what we would do with our retirement fund in the event things got really bad. But the one thing that sticks out in my mind is the fact that we embraced life together no matter what. We knew we had each other and that was all that mattered. And we would continue living and loving life together no matter what. It’s not what we have that defines us but how we live and love the ones closest to us. They are truly what matter most. And when we reach the end of our life here on earth, the only thing that will matter is to make Heaven our last great adventure, cause that day and change is coming.

Back to our trip to NY…It’s the first time we’ve really been away for an extended period of time, and it’s when the realization came that California really is home. Of course my head told me it was home but for some reason it had not fully registered. It was somewhere in the nearly two weeks of being away that it dawned on me. It came in the form of an awakening, the kind that comes softly when you turn around and wonder where it came from. The Lord only knows how long we’ll be here, so I want to continue to spend it with a happy heart and enjoy our time in the west. Who knows when the next change in life will come, but we can rest assured knowing, (join with me and say) change is coming.

Last evening, as we were flying from LA into San Diego excitement welled – And all of California seemed to echo “Welcome Home”!  That’s a little island in the pacific just off the coast of southern California.

The same island – I like to think we went flying all day into the sunset

Making our turn into San Diego – The clouds rolling in over the town and coast below

The dense clouds on our entrance into San Diego

A window opened up to the town below

Below the clouds – We’re Home My Love! I can’t think of any other place I’d rather be than right here with you.

Coming or Going

Today’s the first day since we’ve been here that we’re or somebody is not coming or going.

We met the buyers the other day. They are such a very sweet young couple. The lady of the house is getting ready to graduate from Yale University School of Medicine as an MD and the man of the house is a practicing young Doctor. They have both accepted jobs here at the local hospital and are so excited to be moving into the area soon. They warmed our hearts and we feel so happy our home is going to such a very lovely couple. She told us several times that they would take very good care of our home.

They have already extended to us a warm welcome and that if we ever return to the area that we are not to stay in a hotel. Instead, they welcomed us to stay here any time. Although we have no strings here, it made me smile to think they would open their home to us.

The inspector was here Monday. The appraiser was here yesterday. And by all indications it looks like things are right on schedule.

I have no idea what got into me today, but whatever it is, it’s a wonderful thing. For starters, I slept in this morning. I think I rolled out of bed sometime after 10. The sleep was so nice. The sky was all pretty and blue, the sun was shining, the heater was working making me feel all nice, warm and fuzzy.

It’s such a pretty day and as long as I stay inside, I’ll be nice warm and toasty. For that matter, I think I’m going to stay in my nice warm jammies all day long and make a joyful noise unto the Lord. It’s a wonderful day! And all will be right with the world when hubby returns home tomorrow night.

Coming Home

Our return home has produced quite a range of emotions. The night we arrived, we had no internet or cable TV (those things were scheduled for the next day). We had each other, the home we built and everything that we’ve collected over the last 13 years.  It’s hard to put into words the feelings we experienced that evening.

This trip was planned all winter. We waited for the snow up here to subside. We waited so that we could just come up here and take a chill pill. After all that, we got an offer on our home the week before we flew in. We have buyers. We have a signed contract. We have a closing date. We are excited.  We have bitter sweet emotions. More so than we could have ever expected.

So the first night as we walked through the house, a huge lump developed in my throat. It hit us like a ton of bricks that we were in the midst of enjoying home and saying good bye all at once. But the best feeling that night – As we looked into each others eyes, we didn’t have to say a word. We knew exactly what the other was feeling.

We enjoyed a visit with friends over the weekend. Hubby put steaks on the grill and dinner was a snap.

The boys and Little Chic went fishing out back while the cleanup crew took care of things.

Then an evening of Texas Holdem Poker topped off the night. I’ll never forget what a fun night we had. At this point, I have no idea if that will be the last time we see them. No matter what, they will never be forgotten.

Hubby is off on a business trip the next couple days (we planned our trip around his business trip out east) and as he left, the pretty blue skies vanished.  This was taken the day he left.

From the inside looking out. The weather matched my loneliness.

And even though the house is all lit up, it’s just not the same without him.

There’s a dense blanket of fog hovering yet this afternoon. That’s reason enough to keep the coffee pot busy all day.

I’m really looking forward to these guys ripening up a bit more so that I can make some Brown Sugar Cinnamon Banana Bread in the next day or so. The thought of warm bread and a cup of coffee makes me smile.

We have a little more time to enjoy home sweet home. Then we’ll be back in the very near future to pack and move.

Exciting days are ahead and when the time comes, we’ll be ready for the next chapter.

The Dust Has Settled

I left San Diego one week ago today and flew back to our home. There were so many loose ends to wrap up before we could settle back here in CA.

The first evening back home seemed cold and lonely without hubby. There was a stark incomplete feel as I got out of the cab all alone on that cold dark night. The house was dark and cold as the thermostat had been turned down to a cool 60 degrees. All I wanted to do was curl up in bed and dream that hubby was right there beside me. That night when hubby called he announced that it should be a law that we should never have to be separated again. But sometimes we have to do what we have to do and be thankful that we don’t have to be separated too much.

One of the big jobs was to have the builder’s crew back out to the house to repair the wood floor that was damaged by our movers. It was an ugly mess that I don’t even like to talk about. Electrical power saws were brought in to cut the wood out and the mess of dust all over the house was a nightmare. Just thinking about it is a nightmare.

I finished squaring away with our movers regarding the claim we turned in. The adjuster came out Tuesday for a meeting to go over everything with me. I was more than satisfied with they way they handled our claim.

Wednesday was a day of pampering as I was LONG overdue to have my hair done. I said goodbye to the ole gray mare and hello to my old brunet self.

Hubby flew into town Thursday evening (making my world complete in every way) to spend a couple days wrapping up the things he wanted done.

On Friday morning, my car was picked up by the towing company to ship her out to CA. It was hard to believe that the leaves that were here just two weeks ago were all gone by the time I got back.


Saturday we made it to the UPS store with 6 large boxes filled with stuff we wanted with us out here. I also made one last swoop through the house with my dust rag, vacuum and mop. That’s it, I’m done talking about that mess hence forth and forever more!

After the sun set that evening the sky lit up in the prettiest shades of pink and blue and as we said goodbye to our last little view out back.


Sunday we bounced out of bed at 3:45am so that we could be to the airport by 5:15am in order to catch our 6:15am flight. Our flight didn’t go as planned due to the dense fog but we managed to arrive home last evening safe and sound.

Now that we’ve landed, it feels so peaceful to have all that stuff behind us. We’re looking ahead with so much excitement and it’s going to take a while for it to really sink in that we are really home sweet home. It’s a place we’ve dreamed of living and we feel so blessed that dreams really do come true.