Christmas Eve

There is a certain element of joy when I know we’re going to be at mom and dad’s on Christmas Eve.

It’s the annual tradition of family, food and visiting that joined together makes for the perfect way to spend the holiday.

But before we could get to my parents house, we had to get on a plane and fly from St Louis *Shiver* – down to Sunny South Florida *Ahhh*

It was and early flight, but worth it! As we arrived at the parents house at around 3pm. YAY! My little brother and his family were right behind us.

We all arrived two hours before mom expected us, which was good all the way around. It took some of the work off of her and we all pitched in to help.

And let me tell you, the food that comes out of her kitchen is amazing!

My nephew jumping to give a helping hand.

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My little brother was on duty texting his baby girl (out doing her calling) who is out of the country. We missed her so much.

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The hubs and nephew on stand-by waiting on their next assignment.

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My pop starting a fire. My wish was to roast a marshmallow that evening, but my tummy was too full by the end of the night. P.S. My family does not burn/catch our marshmallows on fire. No, we slowly turn it until its  reached golden brown status and soft on the inside. Mmmm…I could go for one now!

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My sis-in-law preparing the annual goodie table.

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My niece cooking up some sausage for our homemade egg rolls.

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Her brother, my nephew – supervising…

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And that’s when I went off camera duty and on over to my post aka the kitchen sink. I was trying to keep up with all the dirty dishes flying into my sink…And things had started to pile up.

Then we all enjoyed the fruits of our labor by dining outdoors and visiting into the evening hours by candle light and the nice little fire…Did I mention how yummy everything was? And how good it was to spend time around the table once again with family? It was such a joyous occasion and once again, my mother outdid herself.

Blessings – Debbie

Two Photo-Shoots In One Day – Happy, Happy Joy

December 23rd

On our last full day in St Louis, I had two appointments for photo-shoots. The biggest day in my history of photography thus far. The first session started in St Louis with my nephews. I felt honored that they asked.

Twas the night of the rehearsal dinner (December 21) while dining with my bro-in-law and sis-in-law, that I heard behind me “Aunt Debbie”.

When I turn around, to see the commotion, my nephew was there asking if I would have time to shoot he and his little brother while there.

Did I have time? I’ll make time! Those were my thoughts and so we set up a time early for the day after the wedding (December 23) to meet over at the park such that we could shoot not only them but their cars too!

This aunt heart enjoyed the next hour and a half directing and shooting until our hearts were content.

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Younger brother, my how they love baseball, especially the St Louis Cardinals.

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Big brother and his pretty ride.

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 I plan on getting back to these pix in about a week or so. I may post more of them at that time.

After playing around in the park…oh, did I mention the po-po came and scolded us? Of all things, seems too many tires were on the grass? I just smiled and told him we would move.

Anyway, after playing in the park, the hubs and I moved on up the road to visit his sister and her family.

And I had another photo shoot with her son, our nephew and his wife! Yea!!! This so happens to be my very first couple photo shoot too, exciting!

So off to the park we strolled…

I immediately thought this train made for a great backdrop. So we went with it.

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Two love birds in the park.

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Words, there are no words for such sweetness.

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 Fun was had by all.

And I’m so happy I directed them to kiss! Love truly is the sweetest thing…

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Here we all are back at my sis-in-law and bro-in-laws home with their two boys and their families.

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After a nice meaningful visit and dinner with the family, we made our 2 hour trek back to St Louis such that we would be on time for our flight out (to Florida) the next morning, Christmas Eve.

Blessings – Debbie

 

Wedding Bells

I could criticize the pictures in this post to no end. As a young photographer not knowing what I’m doing “indoors”…”yet”. I find a lot of error, but I can’t but help want to share a few pictures from our nephew’s wedding.

I’m going to try to keep this post as short as possible as we would be here all day and then some, if I posted all 900 + shots from the wedding.

Let’s get started, shall we?

December 22nd

We arrived early such that we could get a good seat up front.

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We were the first to be seated, so I took a few shots.

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The music started right on que and the wedding was in full swing…right on schedule.

Here we have the maid of honor and best man.

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Too cute for words as they passed by.

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The bride and her daddy

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So beautiful and happy.

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Waiting for his bride…

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Such a beautiful couple.

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Those red shoes, my do they add a nice pop.

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I wasn’t able to get a full shot of the wedding party, but I was able to capture the girls from my seat.

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The kiss

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It’s so sweet that she made sure the lipstick didn’t stick to his lips.

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The happy and very much in love, Mr. and Mrs.

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That little couple captured my eye from the moment my eyes met them.

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The happy bride greeting her guests.

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I can’t tell you what happened when I saw this pic in the file. There is so much going on, people, expressions and well, I wanted to play with it. I couldn’t help myself.

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He may have stood just like this for one second and I happened to capture the moment.

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Something sweet is taking place here.

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It seems this little guy is wooing her.

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And perhaps he knew just what to do to get her attention.

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He DID it! Way to go little man, way to go!

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And they danced…

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First dance

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Daddy daughter dance

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Mother son dance

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Everybody Dance Now!

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Our oldest nephew in this family and his lovely bride since June of 2012.

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The second in line nephew and Groom with his beautiful family.

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The third in line nephew (freshmen in college) with his girlfriend.

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The fourth in line (Jr in high school) and the baby brother (he was pretty sick but was such a good sport) with his nephew/our great-nephew.

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The proud daddy (the hubs big brother) with all of his boys.

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Oh my word, look at the cameras taking shots of these two. Apparently I wasn’t the only one.

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Cutie patootie.

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The groom with his son in deep conversation with buddies.

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The music lasted long into the night and the bride and groom live happily ever after.

Blessings – Debbie

 

It Has To Be Done

Yes, I will be blogging all over the place on this post, but it must be done to move forward.

December 20 and 21 were days filled with family and friends.

We visited the hubs old friend Rick. They hadn’t seen each other since High School and it was cool for them to get to see each other after all these years. What a nice visit, hope the years are not so far apart the next time we meet.

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We also enjoyed a visit with the hubs 6th grade teacher. She was a fun teacher, from what the hubs tells me. And to this day she is still quite a character.

I didn’t take any shots as she was in bed with a couple of broken bones from a fall. But the visit was meaningful and she seemed to really enjoy the hours we spent by her bedside.

We moved along to visit with family and to even catch the bride and her daddy as they placed the final touches at the reception hall.

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It was exactly one year ago from that day that her dearest mother passed away. Her mom left her saying “honey, don’t ever let the holidays get you down because of me. Cherish the days and enjoy them. Celebrate and remember all of the good times!”

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And so the bride truly had a celebration. Surrounded by family and friends far and near, we came together to celebrate this day, the day they will always cherish together.

And her smile? Wow, did she ever sport a heart felt smile – All. Weekend. Long!

I love the beautiful finishing touches on each table.

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But it was that beautiful smile of the bride that truly lit up the room.

From there I really enjoyed watching the rehearsal. But I did not take one single pic. Nope, I sat in the back with my new niece of six months. She married my nephew last June. So we had some fun catching up. And then on over to the rehearsal dinner, my oh my was that visit with family and the yummy dinner amazing! Again, no pix, but, the memories, oh the memories we made.

Blessings – Debbie

Happy New Year

I’m so excited about 2013! But I’m not going to get all wrapped up into the New Year on the Blog just yet. As you know, I have some catching up to do before I can move on.

We have been quite busy bodies the last couple of weeks. And the plan is to take that one blog post at a time too. Small bites, that’s how I plan to catch up.

For starters, on December 19th, the hubs and I took a trip to St Louis to visit with family and attend our nephew’s wedding.

Disclaimer – All shots (in this post) were taken with my iPad and the last shot (in St Louis) taken with my cell phone. I wasn’t ready for the “big guy” just yet.

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There is something about living on the West Coast and flying over the desert. Especially when snow begins to appear on mountain tops. I’m smitten.

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Oh my word! Utter splendor as we approach our first stop in Salt Lake City. I’m one happy gal that the hubs insists I have the window seat.

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You should have seen me at the airport in Salt Lake that evening. I was PUSHING for our flight to lift off before sunset. As we continued to taxi out, the pilot would announce “we are 5th in line for takeoff”… Each time he would announce something new and all the time in-between, I would freak out, look out the window, check to see that the sun was still up. It’s crazy the things that drive me nuts when I want to photograph a sunset with snow-covered peaks.

But alas, this is all the light I had to work with once our feet were off the ground.

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Soon, I reclined and relaxed for the remains of our flight.

We were prepared for St Louis to be freezing cold. Instead, it was cold and raining that evening. And we were both so thankful that it was not ice.

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That concludes day 1 of our trip.

Blessings – Debbie

Visit With Our Nephew

We’ve been talking all summer of how we need to get together with our nephew, Lars.  He’s just a short hop up from us, as he’s in LA working an intern job over the summer.

And this last weekend, was the weekend we made it happen.

Lars told his uncle (hubby) that he was free to come down to San Diego for a visit and we could not have been happier.

It was time well spent.

And yes, he made that killer shot!  Way to go Lars!

As the sun started dropping, I thought it was the right time to get some of those golden hour shots.

The aperture was changed to blur the background or to give a shallow depth of field.

While he carried on with his uncle, I shot…

…and snapped…

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and snapped some more.  I’m not very happy with my shots and like hubby said.  I should have put the camera on auto for some of these or at least changed the aperture.

But overall, I’m happy he was willing to let me snap away and glad to have these pictures for memory lane.

Next time, I hope to have a better grasp of all the things I’m learning in photography class.

This shot (of all of us) was taken in manual but with a higher aperture (a bit larger depth of field).  I wish I would have had kept this setting for the above shots of Lars.  Another lesson learned.

But the good news, we had such a great time and that’s what matters most.

Blessings – Debbie

A Trip to Central IL

It was a special day as the excitement was mounting.  A day we looked forward to for many – many months.  This was the day we were on our way to the wedding of our nephew.

But before our trip, we had to make a quick stop at the local Wal*Marts.  We still needed to pick up a card for the bride and groom.

I love their display as there is no doubt what part of town we were in.  This was Cardinal Nation, baby. Best fans in baseball.  My hubby has been a fan since he was a toddler and I’ve been a fan since the beginning of our time together.

Are you thinking non sequitur?  Me too.  But this is what happens when a display like this hits me.

So we secured the card for the couple, then off to the next great adventure.

The evening was a flurry of family and friends arriving from far and near.  And we had brief visits with many we had not seen in a while = good times.

While the rehearsal was underway, hubby and I found a great place to dine and we were back in time for a big family gathering on the outdoor patio.

There was so much excitement in the air.  Children were splashing in the pool and good times lasted long into the night.

It was a night that the camera stayed in the room and the meaningful visits with loved ones will remain in my heart forever.  I’m learning there are times when it’s nice not to be in camera mode.

Blessings – Debbie

The Pictures are in the Mail

THE (family and Sr) PICTURES ARE IN THE MAIL!  Yes, I’m yelling!  Would love to yell this from the mountain top, I’m that happy!

I had a number of issues to deal with between Christmas and the 1st of April.  Issues with my computer, issues with running out of space on the computer (I have never done that before) and issues, oh the issues.  We also had a big move somewhere in the middle of all of that.  All the while, hubby continued to bail me out of trouble.

Finally, the pictures that were chosen, were compiled and DVD’s were burned over the weekend.

Hubby gathered the DVD labels and the stomper and suggested I make a nice graphic for them.

The graphics were made.

When it came time to print the labels Sunday evening, we hit yet another issue.  The printer flat-out, broke.  We agreed we would nail a new printer Monday evening and all would be right with the world and the pictures would be in the mail by Tuesday.

Turns out, we did go to buy our new printer, but hubby felt too rushed into making a decision on the spot.

The next plan was to drive back home, log on and e-mail the pix to hubby’s work.  Then drive over and print them out.

So that’s exactly what we did.  Hubby printed them out from work, made the postage purchase online and slapped that on the box of DVD’s.  To top it off, the box was dropped it in the mail Monday night sometime around 10:30 pm.

And that my friends makes me and hubby so very happy.

Blessings – Debbie

Monday Sampler

I would like to say “good morning!”  But here it is late evening already.  Where did Monday go?

First up, I was so excited to dig into my stash of rye toast again.  I’m feeling back to my old self. I’m so thankful.

Blessed that I learned my egg and spinach sandwich would be much better sans that peach mango salsa.

Don’t get me wrong, I love that salsa but I prefer my eggs and spinach as is, with a dash of s and p.  Blessed to have another check in the box for a lesson learned.

Today made their third day on display.  I think I’ll be a big fan of this bud vase all summer long.

My Twin Nieces – Can it be they are graduating from high school already?  It doesn’t seem that long ago when I rushed to the hospital to meet them, on the day they were born.

They’ve grown up to be two of the nicest young gals in the world.

I was asked to take their senior pictures over Christmas and I’m finally getting around to getting all the finishing touches done.  Fingers crossed I’m able to mail them out this week.

She has big dreams. I wish her the very best now and always.

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Her dreams are great.  My wish for her is nothing less than the best.

Presh, it’s what comes to mind while I edit their pictures.  I love them and miss them so much.

This post started late afternoon.  It was then put on hold when hubby walked thru the door.  I didn’t get back to it ’til nearly 10 pm.

Where did our evening go?  They say time flies when you’re having fun.

Blessings – Debbie

Family, Friends and Christmas

Is it really March?  And am I really trying to catch-up on the blog?  Yes and YES!  Lets get started, shall we?

Is there anything better than spending time with family and friends at Christmas?  I feel one of the greatest gifts we can give to family is spending time together.

This Christmas we flew to FL to spend time with my parents and my “Little Brother” and his family.  Good meaningful times were had.  And lots of good memories were made.

My family, minus my big brother and family.

I had the privilege of taking a few pictures of my Brother and his family…

…My pop with his best friend…

…Nieces and nephew being silly at Christmas…

…Nieces and nephew – sibling shot…

…and again…

One evening (while in town) on a whim, my little bro called to see if we would like to join them for dinner.  It turned out to be such a great event.  After dinner, we enjoyed a nice little stroll and visit on the boardwalk.

Hubby got to see his old buddy – We enjoyed an amazing little outdoor lunch.

I had the privilege of taking pictures of my beautiful twin nieces with their best friend of so many years.

And my nephew with the snake he’s raised.

But most of all, I will cherish the love we share, the precious time we carve out for each other and all the special memories we made.

Blessings – Debbie

Making Memories

Hubby and I are back home and getting settled from a little vacay up north to see our daughter.

What a joy to spend time with Kristy.  She is a delight and we were blessed to get to help celebrate her birthday.

We also had the treat of meeting a couple of her really good friends.

The Birthday Dinner was celebrated at Benihana.

This pic did not turn out so well but I think the blur made it interesting.

I was so disappointed with the way those pix turned out…I could cry.  I think I like them in sepia the best, but still, I’m sick about it.

While visiting Kristy, hubby and I had a chance to scoot over (an hour away) to visit with Grandma and her two sisters Great Aunt Ruth and Great Aunt Barb.  Left to Right – Aunt Ruth, Grandma, Aunt Barb and me.  ‘Twas a lovely afternoon where hubby and I treated them to lunch.

I’m happy we were able to squeeze in another trip this year.  So many good memories were made.

Blessings – Debbie

Fun With Family

Sunday was quite a special day as we were gathering with more family.  We took a little two-hour road trip to see hubby’s sister Cindy and family.  Little did we know a feast was in the works.  Ham, pot roast (with potatoes, carrots & gravy), pea salad, salad, homemade rolls, broccoli casserole, green bean casserole, hash brown casserole…Hmmmm, what did I miss?  It was all so delicious and prepared by our nephews.

We also celebrated our great-nephew Ben’s birthday.

We had cake and homemade banana ice cream…So yummy!

And played on the front porch with Ben’s new “Fire Truck”.

It took no time to figure out the duties of a fire chief.

His hose could reach nearly 15 or so feet.  There was lots of fun, especially since the adults were playing along.

Big sister quickly caught on…

At times there was a driver and two willing Chiefs.

Love that Sam posed side-saddle on this old tricycle my hubby and his siblings used to ride.

Precious Connie – She was my little buddy…

Big sister was willing to pose for pix…

I had to get a shot of her pretty boots.

Connie always had a smile when I pointed the camera her way.

It was such a joy to cuddle with Ben.

Three of our great-nieces and nephews.  We got to see our other great-nephew last week.

Hubby’s sister with her two sons and families.

While the children played into the night, the adults rustled up a fun game of Texas Holdem’ Poker.  By the end of the night,  Brad ran away with all the chips.  Good Game!

A visit to Cracker Barrel before heading back to St Louis yesterday.

Great-aunt Debbie can’t take too many pix…

Little Ben fell fast asleep before our meal arrived and slept all through his breakfast.  Hubby took good care of him.

We have more family to see before we make our way back home.  I’ll be back with more pix later.

Blessings – Debbie

Take Me Out To The Ball Game

A visit to St Louis is not complete without a trip to Ramon’s.  This has been hubby’s favorite Mexican restaurant ever.  It became my favorite Mexican restaurant back in our dating years when he took me here for the first time.  He always judges Mexican food to this place.  I understand why.

So, this was the plan last evening for our sit down meal.  We have been doing so good on our healthy eating that we neither wanted this basket of chips that sat in front of us.

After dinner, hubby took me for a little drive thru his old hometown.  We passed by the old Collinsville water tower.

Drove by the worlds largest CATSUP bottle.  I was impressed.

But to see the Kahoks play football, would have the be the highlight of the day.

Our nephew Luke # 48 made us proud.

Even though the team lost, we left feeling we were already winners.  It was pretty amazing to hear screams from the stands to pass the ball to #48!  I couldn’t help but feel proud of all the hard work Luke does for his team.

Our nephew Trey, he was a hard one to catch.  But oh so cute!

Our great-nephew Austin showed up for the game too!  His grandma (my sis-in-law Chris) had just given him a cow bell to ring during the game.  Good job ringing that bell Austin!

Our nephew (body builder) Eric and his son Austin.  These two are two peas in a pod.

Children who sat right in front of us but were too cute and wanted their pix taken too.

Back home after the game.  Two very proud parents of four of the finest sons you will find.

Luke, Gerry and Trey.  We wish Eric would have been able to make it over after the game.

Gerry and Beth – Our newly engaged (this month) nephew.  She is such a doll, I totally love this girl and welcome her with open arms to the family.  They drove 3 hours one way just to see his brother play and to see us.  Great kids!

Chris had just finished taking care of Luke’s wounded arm after the game.  I think she was telling him to never get hurt like that again.  (I kid) She is such a great mom, loves her boys but I love how she lets them be boys.  She and my bro-in-law have done an amazing job with these guys.

As our evening came to a close, all felt right with the world and quality time with family.

I never tire of passing by the arch night or day, it’s such a beautiful sight to behold.

This wraps up another glorious day in St Louis.

Blessings – Debbie

A Visit To St Louis

Hubby and I took a trip to St Louis this week.  A trip to visit with family and friends.

What do you do on the plane to pass the time away?  I played games on my phone like:  Reversi, Sudoku and the most fun was playing Color Touch.

I took pix the other day when I had my mani/pedi and found color touch to be a fun app to toy with this pic.  + the fact that it helped the time pass quickly…

Soon we landed and were greeted with a heat wave, like I’ve never experienced in all my live long days.  There was no gradual introduction to summer as it clearly slapped us in the face.  And I recall exclaiming to hubby “This is so UN San Diego”.  I’ve been a little under the weather ever since.

We quickly gathered our things and secured our rental car, made our way to the hotel and bathed in our nice air-conditioned room.

That evening we went to visit hubby’s son Ryan and his choice was to go for a little sit down at the local Starbucks.  Anyone who knows me well, knows I have a soft spot in my heart for the place.  But I snubbed it kindly while visiting with Ryan while he enjoyed his iced something or other.  Great visit we had.

Yesterday we got to spend time with Ryan and Lauren.  Mostly Ryan as his car was in need of attention.  It was a long ordeal, ask the mechanic.  All is can say is at day’s end, the mechanic offered Ryan a car and at day’s end, Ryan secured that new car!  Not without hubby doing his homework, but I won’t get into that long story here.  We can all say what a great day and deal all the way around!  And we topped off our evening spending quality family time at Panera Bread.

Sometime during the evening hours back at the hotel, I caught myself dreaming of home.

And I spent all night long in Southern California.  In my dreams…

Blessings – Debbie

Mom and Dad Visit San Diego – The End

I realize I’m so far behind on the blog.  So far behind that I’m not liking it one bit.  So I decided today that I would compress mom and dad’s rest of the visit into one (huge) post.  Be prepared for lots of pix in this entry.

A pic of us in the garden.

This was my parents second full day, a day we wanted to just chill around the house.

This picture was taken on our street several doors down.

It truly was a day filled with lots of this…

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And gathering around this table for great outdoor dining.

And this was brought into the mix each day.

Ah, evenings around the fire, so nice…

The next day (Sunday) we worshiped at Shadow Mountain in San Diego

My parents from where we were sitting.

A visit to Old Town Sunday afternoon.

Where we stopped for a little Sunday dinner.

Pop noticed the sign, I wanted a pic of him with it.

Back home in the backyard… A nice place to relax during the afternoon/evening hours.

One of the many massive boulders in our backyard.  If pop could have slipped this baby in his suitcase, I believe it would be in his backyard back home.

My parents in the backyard after a day well spent.

This brings us to our last full day together.  Monday June 13th was the day we went to Point Loma.

It was a day to enjoy the Pacific, where the ocean and cliffs meet.

We watched this ship sail out of the harbor…

And enjoyed the view.  The sign below warns of the recent falling rock.

Even though the sun was still hiding that morning, we found beauty in this day.

The view below of the cliffs (where we were earlier) as we drove up to the top of Point Loma.

Another view…

Point Loma – My parents with the National Monument.

A view of the harbor, Navy Base and downtown San Diego from the other side of Point Loma.  The sun was working hard to chase the clouds away.

Our next stop (the same day) was Mount Soledad.

The sweeping views from there are amazing.  Looking North up the coast of southern California.

From Mount Soledad looking south.  We can see downtown San Diego on the left meeting the horizon.  We can also see Mexico, Point Loma, Coronado Island and many other cool places from the top of this mountain.

At day’s end, we enjoyed our last dinner outdoors and our last visit around the fire.

Soon darkness fell and our fire went out.  The next best thing to do was to come indoors and shoot pool.  Another important thing was to bake fresh oatmeal choc chip cookies.  And yes, fresh coffee was served.  Then again, we had fresh coffee morning and evening each day (while they were in town) whether we needed it or not.

This wraps up our nice little family visit with my parents.  We were so delighted to see them and already look forward to our next visit.

Blessings – Debbie